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It Didn t Start with You

It Didn t Start with You Book
Author : Mark Wolynn
Publisher : Penguin
Release : 2016-04-26
ISBN : 1101980370
File Size : 30,9 Mb
Language : En, Es, Fr and De


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A groundbreaking approach to transforming traumatic legacies passed down in families over generations, by an acclaimed expert in the field Depression. Anxiety. Chronic Pain. Phobias. Obsessive thoughts. The evidence is compelling: the roots of these difficulties may not reside in our immediate life experience or in chemical imbalances in our brains—but in the lives of our parents, grandparents, and even great-grandparents. The latest scientific research, now making headlines, supports what many have long intuited—that traumatic experience can be passed down through generations. It Didn’t Start with You builds on the work of leading experts in post-traumatic stress, including Mount Sinai School of Medicine neuroscientist Rachel Yehuda and psychiatrist Bessel van der Kolk, author of The Body Keeps the Score. Even if the person who suffered the original trauma has died, or the story has been forgotten or silenced, memory and feelings can live on. These emotional legacies are often hidden, encoded in everything from gene expression to everyday language, and they play a far greater role in our emotional and physical health than has ever before been understood. As a pioneer in the field of inherited family trauma, Mark Wolynn has worked with individuals and groups on a therapeutic level for over twenty years. It Didn’t Start with You offers a pragmatic and prescriptive guide to his method, the Core Language Approach. Diagnostic self-inventories provide a way to uncover the fears and anxieties conveyed through everyday words, behaviors, and physical symptoms. Techniques for developing a genogram or extended family tree create a map of experiences going back through the generations. And visualization, active imagination, and direct dialogue create pathways to reconnection, integration, and reclaiming life and health. It Didn’t Start With You is a transformative approach to resolving longstanding difficulties that in many cases, traditional therapy, drugs, or other interventions have not had the capacity to touch.

True Refuge

True Refuge Book
Author : Tara Brach
Publisher : Bantam
Release : 2016-01-12
ISBN : 0553386344
File Size : 35,5 Mb
Language : En, Es, Fr and De


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How do you cope when facing life-threatening illness, family conflict, faltering relationships, old trauma, obsessive thinking, overwhelming emotion, or inevitable loss? If you’re like most people, chances are you react with fear and confusion, falling back on timeworn strategies: anger, self-judgment, and addictive behaviors. Though these old, conditioned attempts to control our life may offer fleeting relief, ultimately they leave us feeling isolated and mired in pain. There is another way. Beneath the turbulence of our thoughts and emotions exists a profound stillness, a silent awareness capable of limitless love. Tara Brach, author of the award-winning Radical Acceptance, calls this awareness our true refuge, because it is available to every one of us, at any moment, no exceptions. In this book, Brach offers a practical guide to finding our inner sanctuary of peace and wisdom in the midst of difficulty. Based on a fresh interpretation of the three classic Buddhist gateways to freedom—truth, love, and awareness—True Refuge shows us the way not just to heal our suffering, but also to cultivate our capacity for genuine happiness. Through spiritual teachings, guided meditations, and inspirational stories of people who discovered loving presence during times of great struggle, Brach invites us to connect more deeply with our own inner life, one another, and the world around us. True Refuge is essential reading for anyone encountering hardship or crisis, anyone dedicated to a path of spiritual awakening. The book reminds us of our own innate intelligence and goodness, making possible an enduring trust in ourselves and our lives. We realize that what we seek is within us, and regardless of circumstances, “there is always a way to take refuge in a healing and liberating presence.” Praise for True Refuge “Drawing on the latest findings in neuroscience as well as ten more years of personal experience on the path of awakening, Tara Brach’s superb second book brings readers ever more deeply in touch with our true nature. This book is a precious gift, filled with insight, shared from heart to heart.”—Thich Nhat Hanh “True Refuge is a magnificent work of heart. For anyone interested in developing a deeper understanding of the mind and how to improve the quality of their life, this book offers unique insights and easily learned practices that literally can transform your life’s path. Read, explore, and enjoy!”—Daniel J. Siegel, M.D., author of No-Drama Discipline

Ethical Wisdom

Ethical Wisdom Book
Author : Mark Matousek
Publisher : Anchor
Release : 2012-06-05
ISBN : 0767930681
File Size : 35,7 Mb
Language : En, Es, Fr and De


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From a bestselling author—“a riveting, fun, and insightful tour of life’s meaning and purpose, essential reading for anyone drawn to the query, ‘How ought we to live?'” (Daniel Goleman, author of Emotional Intelligence) Contrary to what we’ve been taught in our reason-obsessed culture, argues Matousek, emotions are the bedrock of ethical life; without them, human beings cannot be empathic, moral, or good. But how do we make the judgment call between self-interest and caring for others? What does being good really mean? Which parts of morality are biological, which ethical? When should instinct be trusted and when does it lead us into trouble? How can we know ourselves to be good amidst the hypocrisy, fears, and sabotaging appetites that pervade our two-sided natures? Drawing on the latest scientific research and interviews with social scientists, spiritual leaders, ex-cons, altruists, and philosophers, Matousek examines morality from all angles in this thoroughly entertaining and helpful guide to crossing one’s own murky moral terrain.

It Didn t Start With You by Mark Wolynn

It Didn   t Start With You by Mark Wolynn Book
Author : QuickRead,Alyssa Burnette
Publisher :
Release : 2023-01-31
ISBN : 0987650XXX
File Size : 48,8 Mb
Language : En, Es, Fr and De


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Do you want more free book summaries like this? Download our app for free at and get access to hundreds of free book and audiobook summaries. A guide to understanding how family trauma shapes our personalities Have you ever wondered why you battle some of the mental health problems that wreak havoc in your life? Have you ever felt “crazy” or like there was something wrong with you? In this exploration of family history and inherited trauma, Mark Wolynn writes to provide psychological evidence that you’re not alone and it’s not your fault.

Childhood Disrupted

Childhood Disrupted Book
Author : Donna Jackson Nakazawa
Publisher : Simon and Schuster
Release : 2016-07-26
ISBN : 1476748365
File Size : 23,8 Mb
Language : En, Es, Fr and De


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An examination of the link between Adverse Childhood Events (ACE's) and adult illnesses.

Summary of It Didn t Start with You

Summary of It Didn t Start with You Book
Author : Cityprint
Publisher : Independently Published
Release : 2019-05-13
ISBN : 9781098556150
File Size : 32,5 Mb
Language : En, Es, Fr and De


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It Didn't Start with You: How Inherited Family Trauma Shapes Who We Are and How to End the Cycle.NOTE: This is a summary guide and is meant as a companion to, not a replacement for, the original book.THE BOOK: It Dіdn't Start Wіth Yоu (2016) sheds lіght on a соmmоn thrеаd іn family rеlаtіоnѕhірѕ. These blіnkѕ еxрlаіn how the source оf уоur еmоtіоnаl or mеntаl problems іѕn't nесеѕѕаrіlу уоu but іnѕtеаd, уоur fаmіlу history. You'll lеаrn how trаumа саn bе passed frоm gеnеrаtіоn tо gеnеrаtіоn, аnd whаt you саn dо to break thе сусlе.ABOUT THE AUTHOR: Mark Wolynn іѕ the founder оf thе Family Cоnѕtеllаtіоn Inѕtіtutе, whісh specializes in thе Cоrе Language Approach іn addressing fаmіlу trаumа.INTRODUCTION: Wеrе you ever unсоmfоrtаblе whеn уоu vіѕіtеd grаndраrеntѕ оr other relatives? Or dіd you hаvе a fraught rеlаtіоnѕhір wіth уоur раrеntѕ? Chаnсеѕ аrе that hidden traumas іn уоur fаmіlу are tо blаmе. Trаumаtіс еvеntѕ саn аffесt the wау wе fееl аnd bеhаvе, аnd when thеу run deep, ѕоmеtіmеѕ trаumа rеԛuіrеѕ уеаrѕ оf thеrару tо rеѕоlvе. But іf lеft unrеѕоlvеd, trаumаѕ, juѕt lіkе gеnеѕ, саn bе раѕѕеd оn frоm gеnеrаtіоn tо gеnеrаtіоn. Thіѕ can hаvе far worse соnѕеԛuеnсеѕ thаn juѕt suffering a parent's sour lооkѕ оvеr the fаmіlу Chrіѕtmаѕ dіnnеr tаblе! How dо уоu overcome thе сrіррlіng hоld оf family trаumа tо ensure thаt уоu dоn't pass оn ѕuсh fееlіngѕ to your сhіldrеn? Language іѕ thе kеу to unlocking thе раѕt. You'll also lеаrn -Hоw thе раіn ѕuffеrеd by уоur great-aunt соuld haunt уоu реrѕоnаllу tоdау; -Whу a few simple ԛuеѕtіоnѕ аrе аll you nееd tо get to thе rооt of раіn; and -How rереаtіng роѕіtіvе ѕtаtеmеntѕ саn rewire your brain.

The Inheritors

The Inheritors Book
Author : Gita Arian Baack, PhD
Publisher : She Writes Press
Release : 2017-06-13
ISBN : 163152223X
File Size : 43,6 Mb
Language : En, Es, Fr and De


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Our family legacies, both positive and negative, are passed down from one generation to the next in ways that are not fully understood. This secondary form of trauma, which Gita Baack calls “Inherited Trauma,” has not received adequate attention—a failing that perpetuates cycles of pain, hatred, and violence. In The Inheritors, readers are given the opportunity to reflect on the inherited burdens they carry, as well as the resilience that has given them the power of survival. Through engaging stories and unique concepts, readers will learn new ways to explore the unknowns in their legacies, reflect on questions that are posed at the end of each chapter, and begin to write their own story.

What Happened to You

What Happened to You  Book
Author : Oprah Winfrey,Bruce D. Perry
Publisher : Flatiron Books
Release : 2021-04-27
ISBN : 1250223210
File Size : 54,7 Mb
Language : En, Es, Fr and De


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#1 NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER Our earliest experiences shape our lives far down the road, and What Happened to You? provides powerful scientific and emotional insights into the behavioral patterns so many of us struggle to understand. “Through this lens we can build a renewed sense of personal self-worth and ultimately recalibrate our responses to circumstances, situations, and relationships. It is, in other words, the key to reshaping our very lives.”—Oprah Winfrey This book is going to change the way you see your life. Have you ever wondered "Why did I do that?" or "Why can't I just control my behavior?" Others may judge our reactions and think, "What's wrong with that person?" When questioning our emotions, it's easy to place the blame on ourselves; holding ourselves and those around us to an impossible standard. It's time we started asking a different question. Through deeply personal conversations, Oprah Winfrey and renowned brain and trauma expert Dr. Bruce Perry offer a groundbreaking and profound shift from asking “What’s wrong with you?” to “What happened to you?” Here, Winfrey shares stories from her own past, understanding through experience the vulnerability that comes from facing trauma and adversity at a young age. In conversation throughout the book, she and Dr. Perry focus on understanding people, behavior, and ourselves. It’s a subtle but profound shift in our approach to trauma, and it’s one that allows us to understand our pasts in order to clear a path to our future—opening the door to resilience and healing in a proven, powerful way.

The Body Keeps the Score

The Body Keeps the Score Book
Author : Bessel A. Van der Kolk
Publisher : Penguin Books
Release : 2015-09-08
ISBN : 0143127748
File Size : 39,8 Mb
Language : En, Es, Fr and De


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An expert on traumatic stress outlines an approach to healing, explaining how traumatic stress affects brain processes and how to use innovative treatments to reactivate the mind's abilities to trust, engage others, and experience pleasure--


Unstuck Book
Author : James S. Gordon, M.D.
Publisher : Penguin
Release : 2009-05-26
ISBN : 9780143115519
File Size : 29,6 Mb
Language : En, Es, Fr and De


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“Extraordinary. . . . Both therapist and patient will benefit hugely from reading this book.” —Deepak Chopra “Exactly what this over-medicated country needs right now.” —Christine Northrup, M.D., author of The Wisdom of Menopause Despite the billions spent on prescription anti-depressant drugs and psychotherapy, people everywhere continue to grapple with depression. James Gordon, one of the nation's most respected psychiatrists, now offers a practical and effective way to get unstuck. Drawing on forty years of pioneering work, Unstuck is Gordon's seven-stage program for relief through food and nutritional supplements; Chinese medicine; movement, exercise, and dance; psychotherapy, meditation, and guided imagery; and spiritual practice. The result is a remarkable guide that puts the power to change in the hands of those ready to say "no" to suffering and drugs and "yes" to hope and happiness.

The DNA of Healing

The DNA of Healing Book
Author : Margaret Ruby
Publisher : Hampton Roads Publishing
Release : 2006-03-01
ISBN : 1612831125
File Size : 46,5 Mb
Language : En, Es, Fr and De


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Neutralize the negative--program the positive Tapping into the current trend of a new view of genetics exemplified in books like The Biology of Belief, Margaret Ruby, herself a healer, shows how this research is becoming increasingly mainstream. In The DNA of Healing, Margaret Ruby teaches how to neutralize the negative patterns handed down through our family lineage and reprogram the DNA with positive patterns that manifest health, wellness, and abundance. Revolutionary scientific research is proving that our emotions and thoughts can impact our health and shape the course of our lives. But if a positive attitude is all we need to live a healthier and happier life, why don’t more people change more quickly? The answers lie deep in our DNA. Along with the color of our eyes and the shape of our nose, we have inherited the emotional patterns and beliefs of our ancestors. Like long-lost family secrets, these deeply embedded patterns influence our health, wealth, and relationships in ways we’re not even aware of. Margaret Ruby, a pioneer and educator in the field of healing and the founder of PossibilitiesDNA, has developed a system for isolating and reversing inherited traumas and negative patterns. The DNA of Healing reveals her breakthrough five-step process that has helped people around the world neutralize the unconscious programming they have inherited and reset their genetic codes for total wellness and abundance. Blending the art of healing with cutting-edge research, Margaret Ruby shows how to work with your DNA on an energetic level, in effect rebooting it to its original blueprint. This extraordinary system allows you to reprogram your DNA with positive patterns--a concept that has tremendous ramifications for more than just your health. The DNA of Healing also shows how you can remove your self-limiting thought patterns about relationships and money, helping you get the abundant life you’ve always wanted.

Heal Or Repeat Breaking The Cycle Of Intergenerational Trauma

Heal Or Repeat  Breaking The Cycle Of Intergenerational Trauma Book
Author : Jared Washington
Publisher : Healing Outreach Purpose Empowerment
Release : 2021-08-17
ISBN : 9781736168851
File Size : 35,8 Mb
Language : En, Es, Fr and De


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Trauma has been able to manifest itself as a weapon of mass destruction in the lives of people, gaining momentum over the years due to more empirical research. Exceptionally layered and multifaceted, trauma has many different components that many of us have or will face throughout the course of our lives. Being Black in America is traumatic within itself due to the constant reminder, ranging from historical events to lived experiences. Those historical and contemporary events of Racism are connected to and produce trauma responses that we, as the collective Black Community in America, should acknowledge, validate and work to heal from. Heal or Repeat: Breaking the Cycle of Intergenerational Trauma, aims to dissect Intergenerational Trauma specifically and exactly how those events of Racism are connected, from a mental health lens, as well as ways to begin the healing process. If you're stuck wondering why certain patterns exist within your family or even the Black Community, then this is the book for you to break the cycle.

Snappsy the Alligator Did Not Ask to Be in This Book

Snappsy the Alligator  Did Not Ask to Be in This Book  Book
Author : Julie Falatko
Publisher : Penguin
Release : 2016-02-02
ISBN : 0698154940
File Size : 50,5 Mb
Language : En, Es, Fr and De


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Snappsy the alligator is having a normal day when a pesky narrator steps in to spice up the story. Is Snappsy reading a book ... or is he making CRAFTY plans? Is Snappsy on his way to the grocery store ... or is he PROWLING the forest for defenseless birds and fuzzy bunnies? Is Snappsy innocently shopping for a party ... or is he OBSESSED with snack foods that start with the letter P? What's the truth? Snappsy the Alligator (Did Not Ask to Be in This Book) is an irreverent look at storytelling, friendship, and creative differences, perfect for fans of Mo Willems.

Journey Through Trauma

Journey Through Trauma Book
Author : Gretchen L. Schmelzer, PhD
Publisher : Penguin
Release : 2018-02-06
ISBN : 0735216843
File Size : 30,8 Mb
Language : En, Es, Fr and De


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For survivors of PTSD and repeated, relational trauma -- and the people who love them. Gretchen Schmelzer watched too many people quit during treatment for trauma recovery. They found it too difficult or too frightening or just decided that for them it was too late. But as a therapist and trauma survivor herself, Dr. Schmelzer wants us to know that it is never too late to heal from trauma, whether it is the suffering caused within an abusive relationship or PTSD resulting from combat. Sometimes what feels like a big setback is actually an unexpected difficult step forward. So she wrote Journey Through Trauma specifically for survivors--to help them understand the terrain of the healing process and stay on the path. There are three basic principles that every trauma survivor should know: Healing is possible. It requires courage. And it cannot be done alone. Traumas that happen more than once--child abuse, sexual abuse, domestic violence, gang violence, even war--are all relational traumas. They happened inside a relationship and therefore must be healed inside a relationship, whether that relationship is with a therapist or within a group. Journey Through Trauma gives us a map to help guide us through that healing process, see where the hard parts show up, and persevere in the process of getting well. We learn the five phases that every survivor must negotiate along the way and come to understand that since the cycle of healing is not linear, circling back around to a previous stage does not mean defeat - it actually means progress as well as facing new challenges. Authoritative and accessible, Journey Through Trauma provides support for survivors and their loved ones through one of the most challenging but necessary processes of healing that anyone can face.

Keep Pain in the Past

Keep Pain in the Past Book
Author : Christopher Cortman,Joseph Walden
Publisher : Mango Media Inc.
Release : 2018-10-15
ISBN : 1633538117
File Size : 53,8 Mb
Language : En, Es, Fr and De


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Heal your psychological pain and take back your life with this breakthrough process based on decades of successful treatment. In Keep Pain in the Past, two of America’s top psychologists in the field of emotional trauma and PTSD share their highly effective methodology for recovering from painful psychological wounds. Whether it’s extreme trauma such as sexual abuse, the horrors of war, or the very serious pain of loss, grief, shame and guilt, their method can help you recover without years of intensive therapy. Doctors Christ Cortman and Joseph Walden have been helping patients recover from trauma for decades. Through a combination of practical steps and illuminating stories, they share the tools and techniques that can help you identify and face your pain, find closure, and alleviate related issues such as depression, anxiety, panic attacks, sleep disruption, and more. Discover how Sheri, a thirty-seven-year-old attorney, recovered from panic attacks that seemed to come out of nowhere. Follow the journey of Mark, a twenty-nine-year-old Army veteran, as he healed from a destructive downward spiral in the grip of PTSD. Explore how Melinda, a forty-two-year-old professor who struggled to sustain a romantic relationship, confronted her torturous childhood and finally found love. These and other stories demonstrate the restorative power of Keep Pain in the Past.

Leading Things You Didn t Start

Leading Things You Didn t Start Book
Author : Tyler Reagin
Publisher : WaterBrook
Release : 2021-03-02
ISBN : 0525654054
File Size : 47,9 Mb
Language : En, Es, Fr and De


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A high-impact leadership coach gives you the tools you need to maximize your influence in a new role, giving you the ability to meet any challenge and take your team, organization, church, or company to new heights. “A practical path to maximizing your influence, navigating transitions, and producing positive results.”—Jon Gordon, 10x bestselling author of The Power of Positive Leadership Sure, it’s inspirational when we hear stories about those who founded companies from their garages with one hundred dollars cash while in high school. But such success is super rare and not always how it plays out for great leaders. The reality is that most leaders are responsible for corporations, teams, and products they didn’t launch from the ground up. Tyler Reagin saw the immense need to address this mission-critical but often overlooked aspect of leadership: healthy transition for leaders who inherit teams, places, or platforms others created. His groundbreaking book Leading Things You Didn’t Start provides a faith-based four-step plan that answers practical questions such as: • Do I really want to take over something loved by so many? • Is there a secret sauce to doing what the leaders before me did? • How do I get the current team on board with my leadership? • How do I honor the past without being trapped by it? • How do I steward the legacy of the leaders who started the movement? Through the use of tried-and-true coaching principles and practical case studies with leaders like Buzz Williams, head coach at Texas A&M, and Cheryl Bachelder, former CEO of Popeyes, Reagin helps you maximize your newfound influx of influence and master the intentions of an inheriting leader.

The Deepest Well

The Deepest Well Book
Author : Nadine Burke Harris
Publisher : Houghton Mifflin Harcourt
Release : 2018
ISBN : 0544828704
File Size : 39,6 Mb
Language : En, Es, Fr and De


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A pioneering physician reveals how childhood stress leads to lifelong health problems, and what we can do to break the cycle.

The Fitness Mindset

The Fitness Mindset Book
Author : Brian Keane
Publisher : Unknown
Release : 2017-06
ISBN : 9781781332528
File Size : 41,8 Mb
Language : En, Es, Fr and De


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Have you ever felt frustrated about not getting the results you want? Do you feel you are eating the right foods and doing the correct workouts but your body still isn't changing as quickly as you want? Are you grinding through your workday with low energy levels? If this sounds familiar, then The Fitness Mindset is the book for you.

Trust After Trauma

Trust After Trauma Book
Author : Aphrodite Matsakis
Publisher : New Harbinger Publications Incorporated
Release : 1998
ISBN : 9781572241015
File Size : 50,8 Mb
Language : En, Es, Fr and De


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Examines the feelings of loneliness and mistrust suffered by trauma survivors, explores how these feelings affect personal relationships, and suggests ways of negotiating and coping with the trauma for improved relationships

Fahrenheit 451

Fahrenheit 451 Book
Author : Ray Bradbury
Publisher : Simon and Schuster
Release : 2003-09-23
ISBN : 0743247221
File Size : 26,7 Mb
Language : En, Es, Fr and De


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A totalitarian regime has ordered all books to be destroyed, but one of the book burners suddenly realizes their merit.


Boneshaker Book
Author : Cherie Priest
Publisher : Macmillan
Release : 2009-09-29
ISBN : 9781429942492
File Size : 40,9 Mb
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In the early days of the Civil War, rumors of gold in the frozen Klondike brought hordes of newcomers to the Pacific Northwest. Anxious to compete, Russian prospectors commissioned inventor Leviticus Blue to create a great machine that could mine through Alaska's ice. Thus was Dr. Blue's Incredible Bone-Shaking Drill Engine born. But on its first test run the Boneshaker went terribly awry, destroying several blocks of downtown Seattle and unearthing a subterranean vein of blight gas that turned anyone who breathed it into the living dead. Now it is sixteen years later, and a wall has been built to enclose the devastated and toxic city. Just beyond it lives Blue's widow, Briar Wilkes. Life is hard with a ruined reputation and a teenaged boy to support, but she and Ezekiel are managing. Until Ezekiel undertakes a secret crusade to rewrite history. His quest will take him under the wall and into a city teeming with ravenous undead, air pirates, criminal overlords, and heavily armed refugees. And only Briar can bring him out alive. At the Publisher's request, this title is being sold without Digital Rights Management Software (DRM) applied.